A Problem You Now Face...And The Solution

Lesson 7
A Problem You Now Face...And The Solution
This final lesson is important to you if, as you went through this course, you said one or more times to yourself, “Maybe!” Maybe there’s something here. Maybe there’s a way for me to settle my case with the least amount of grief. Maybe there’s a way to raise my odds of success and avoid at least some of the brutality that permeates the family law process. Maybe there’s a way to spend our time more effectively. “Maybe, maybe, maybe.” If you said maybe, then you have to be concerned with this problem:Bridging the gap between new ideas, new information, new intentions and implementation. Huge gap.
We’re not going to bridge the gap from new ideas, new information, new intentions, to implementation, to something actually happening. You need tools for this, so I’m going to show you a few tools. But first let me ask you...
If you’re involved in a “contested case” of any kind: How would you like to stop being a “victim”?.....Finally get accurately measurable, quick results from each and every action taken? At will, take the case by the “horns” and start directing traffic for a change? At will, raise your odds of settling by 75% and get more of what you want in your case? Define and DOMINATE the main issues of your choosing? (It doesn’t matter how difficult your “X” seems at the moment what I’m about to reveal to you can “re-invent” your entire attitude about your situation!)If you’re seeking custody and primary care of your kids: How would you like to quit feeling like it’s a foregone conclusion that the “X” gets the kids once and for all? Possess new, powerful ways to magnetically force settlement. Put an end to being a “2nd Class Citizen?” Have the “X” actually be on defense for a change?If you’re fighting unfair child support or worrying about protecting your assets: How would you like to set yourself up where the IRS pays a portion of your child support and you’ve got your assets protected so that you can really build for the future…....AND…..control your income so that you “don’t” have to reveal “all” of it….legally?All those benefits, and many more, are readily available -- with my strategies, notably my “Complete Father’s Rights Protection System”.
I Know You May Cruise The Internet Looking For Answers, Call Lawyer’s On The Phone, And Even Buy Books And CDs Looking For Answers. Still, I Outright Guarantee You've Never Gotten Your Hands On Anything Quite As Powerful And Practical As My Materials
I have assembled a product like no other -- yes, it’s in CD format, but you MUST NOT prejudge it because of that. This is actually a complete "TOOL KIT".....real tools you take and use in your case. It's called THE COMPLETE FATHER’S RIGHTS PROTECTION SYSTEM (2006 Edition) and you might think of it as a complete, transformational Father’s Rights department in a box. Actually, this is such a unique product it is hard to describe, but I'm going to take my very best shot.
There are 6 main, "components" in the COMPLETE FATHER’S RIGHTS PROTECTION SYSTEM -- let me walk you through each of them:
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #1:"No Brainer," Fast Implementation
First, in general, I've made implementation an 80% "no-brainer," because I have done 80% of the work for you. In addition to teaching on CD in the System, I have taken nearly 50 case studies and created complete pleading work for each one; including Magnetic Power Pleadings --- including: Motions, Petitions, Tort Claims, Parenting Plans and Declarations, and so on. And these documents are all marked "Copyright Free," which gives you permission to take them and use them, virtually as-is! (When an attorney is paid to develop just ONE collection of documents like these, for one client, they often charge $3,500.00 to as much as $10,000.00, so there’s tens of $1,000’s worth of legal drafting provided in this System!)
Now, here's the best part: Information and ideas are fine, but let's bridge the gap to implementation. It turns out that 90% of all Father’s and their cases fit one (or more) of these categories so perfectly and ...YOUR case will match up with (at least) one of these categories so perfectly, you will be able to "steal" and use those "power pleadings" and strategies outright, just as if they were created for you ... only very minor adaptation necessary! Please pay attention to this point! I’ve given many seminars and, after each speech, I am surrounded by Father’s, each asking if the System applies to his case and will it work in his State, each believing their cases to be so "different" it must not be included. So, to repeat: 90% of all cases and situations are covered by this System! For most, at least one category is such a perfect match, there's instant application with little or no creative adaptation.
The System covers divorce, paternity, child support modifications, custody modifications, appeals, contempt of court, license suspensions, wage garnishments, grandparents rights, mediation, asset protection, on and on. And just about everybody who gets this System finds one category to be a very close match ... they learn and "borrow" from ALL the materials, AND they are able to instantly and easily apply the tools from the one category best matched to their case.
Included in these Copyright-Free Documents, in one of the examples, is the now-famous “Paper Blizzard Strategy.” Methods that I show at most seminars, that every audience falls in love with! You've just got to see this "Father’s Rights Masterpiece!"
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #2:Learn From 8 Father’s Rights Manuals – Over 1,000 Pages
In addition to everything I created for you, I have also included 8 manuals that have been the backbone of the Father’s Rights Movement for the last 20 years. The Father’s that have used them have reported extraordinary results.
· A Father’s Guide To Winning Custody of Your Kids and Waging Your Own Personal Child Support Revolt taking you from the first time a problem arises through final paperwork; and
· A Father’s Guide To Winning Custody of Your Kids and Waging Your Own Personal Child Support Revolt Part II reveals in plain language how to stop oppression and live a free life; and,
· Anatomy Of A Divorce / A Guide For Father’s tells you what no other source will about the divorce process; and,
· Anatomy Of An Action For Parentage A Guide For Unwed Father’s is specifically geared for unwed Father’s; and,
· A Father’s Defense Guide Against False Allegations Of Sexual Abuse shows you how to strike back against false allegations of sexual abuse/domestic violence; and,
· Mediation: How Father’s Can Settle Custody And Child Support Disputes Without Going To Court teaches how to settle effectively rather than go into the non-user-friendly, anti-father court system; and,
· Winning Strategies For Father’s In Custody & Child Support Disputes is written for Father’s that are serious about rolling up their sleeves and doing their own pleading work; and
· Winning Strategies For Father’s In Custody/Child Support Disputes Part Il reveals jealously guarded secrets which show Father’s how to turn their cases into Rights-Winning Machines.
But virtually EVERY possible scenario is included in my System. My COMPLETE FATHER’S RIGHTS PROTECTION SYSTEM is a comprehensive, integrated package of help with pleadings, techniques, strategies asset protection formulas, and every problem and solution presented in easily understandable format.
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #3:The "Audio Companion" CD
Audio CD #1 “The Audio Companion CD” "walks" you through every scenario, every 'power pleading', every tool, every example in the System. Sit down for a couple of hours at your desk or kitchen table, with the System, listen to this CD, and you’ll understand everything in the System, where it is, why it's there, how it is to be used. This way, you quickly set up your own "Fathers’ Rights Smorgasbord," so you can go back through the line, pick out the strategy and "tools" most relevant to your case right now, get those up and running, working for you, and then go back through the line and pick another system, etc.
Oh, and don't worry about the "how to eat an elephant problem" here -- the answer IS "one bite at a time." This System is NOT something you're going to zip through once, put on a shelf and never go back to. Not at all! It IS a true "tool kit" you'll keep going back to, time after time, month after month. And each time you choose and put to work a System, a strategy, or tool, you will AGAIN simplify your life, strengthen your position with your kids, and gain control of your case!
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #4:A "Crash Course" In Father’s Rights
Audio CD #2 gives you a fast, crash course in these unusual, powerful strategies. This unique CD is in question and answer format and condenses my answers for you.....it's a total "brain drain".....and I promise you: you're going to EAGERLY refer to this CD over and over again, making new discoveries every time! If you have friends that may be going through the same thing you are, get them to refer to this CD, and they'll instantly have their minds opened to these new approaches.
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #5:7 Major Bonuses ...
The system contains 7 Major Father’s Rights Bonuses. "Here, I focus on several of the most powerful, easy to master, easy to implement Systems which affect your rights and offer some “extra” useful tools as well. You’ll see great results from: Magnetic Power Pleadings, Nationwide Father’s Rights Resources, Magnetic Power Pleadings, Glossary, State and Federal Tort Claims, Report on Parental Alienation Syndrome and a Compendium of Legal Forms Shrewdly Slanted in Your Favor,
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You get my personal feedback, by phone, email or FAX. And staff does NOT do this; you get advice from me on what you've done well, what you haven't, and how to improve it. (By the way, a warning: I'm rather blunt. I may hurt your feelings. But I WILL improve your case!)
As a Father’s Rights consultant, I frequently provide this 2nd Opinion Critique service to many Father’s, and charge $200.00 per item, so this IS a very real value. However, it can certainly be worth a whole lot more to you. (There's a Father in Seattle, Washington for example, who made three "little" changes in his case pleading that he was about to file -- and immediately got some things in court the next day that he wasn’t even going to ask for before I talked to him. Or another Father in Florida that made ... one "little" change in the way he “channeled” his income and saved tons on child support because “he’ controlled his income.
You get me to respond to your most vexing problems. I regularly charge big dough for my “personal” consultation, but this is included for you at no added charge!
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The Famous "Impossible Case" Story

Lesson 6
The Famous "Impossible Case" Story
This story is a real important story. Here’s everything it does.First of all, it takes everything we talked about and a few things we didn’t, and stitches them together in chronologically applicable order, so you see how they work. Secondly, it does it in a real-life situation. This is a true-life example. Third, it does it with an extremely disagreeable “X” most of you would never expect to settle, thereby demonstrating if this guy can do it, you can do it too. Fourth, it gives you a complete, as I promised you at the beginning of our time together, a Father’s Rights strategy, a system, step-by-step, that you can walk out of here and use exactly as it is described to you in this story, and see results in your case; perhaps in a short period of time.
One day, I get a phone call from a guy right here in my own home town of Seattle, Washington. He’s calls me, as so many Father’s do with the “impossible case.” He’s so depressed and at his wits end about his situation --- not being able to see his kids, false allegations by the “X” against him regarding him abusing his kids, and a nasty child support order which garnishes his wages, leaving him with next to nothing to live on. This guy was desperate for help!
A Deadly Mistake
The point is that this guy is desperate and willing to try anything; while most Father’s are not. Don’t make this flagrant mistake.
So, I consoled him for a minute and then hit him with what he needed to do….follow the system. I gave him a brief history how to go about it and he began the process.
Of course he was skeptical, but, so distraught that he had nothing to lose.
He began by sending the first letter to his “X” making it a really impassioned message. Of course, no response. A couple of weeks later he sent a follow up letter, still no response. All the while, he was defending himself in court on multiple hearings and going through a series of parenting and anger management evaluations. And, he fought vigorously by the way!
Because he was feeling a little better about things, in fact, empowered for the first time in a couple of months, he began filing his own motions in court without an attorney and appealed every order of the court --- bumping things upstairs out of the family court and into the court of appeals.
He became very organized and offered sworn affidavits from family and friends contradicting his “X”’s statements and submitted these to the evaluators. He also filed them into the record at the courthouse.
Again, he sent a further letter offering to mediate with her and to come to some sort of settlement that made sense for everyone concerned; particularly the kids. Again, no response.
So, he got the bright idea [from the system of course] to file a tort claim lawsuit against the “X”, her attorney and several people that testified against him. He told me “you should have seen their faces when they got served.” In fact, he immediately got a phone call from the “X”’s attorney …. Yelling at him and telling him he didn’t know what he was doing and that he couldn’t sue. My guy proceeded to tell Mr. Attorney that he obviously didn’t understand cause he already did it! It was becoming fun now!
Yet, my client didn’t lose sight of the system which is to create pressure to gain relief!
Again, he sent a letter to the “X” offering to talk about settlement and something that made sense. By this time, of course, she had heard from all her family and friends that were part of the lawsuit; something she created by being such a b___ !
All of a sudden, after 6 months, she sent him an email chewing him out and asking him who he thought he was; but, near the end of the email she said she might be willing to concede on some issues; but, that she’d have to have custody and still needed money.
WOW! This guy called me immediately and was “giddy” with joy. He said that this was the first time progress of any sort was seen. I was happy for him, of course, but warned him not to let his guard down and “keep working the system.”
Now, think about this for a second, because two important things just happened. Not only did it look like the “X” was beginning to soften, my guy was really enthused now!
There’s more to his story, but, I think you get the point. And, there are many, many more techniques this guy hadn’t even used yet.
If he stops there, it’s a giant epic waste. Think of what has to happen now for it this situation to turn into an actual settlement. He has to meet with her, propose his ideas, listen to hers and come to an agreement. Fat change huh? No, wrong again. He’s closer than he thinks.
Now, I’m going to tell you the rest of the story, mostly for fun. It makes one important point. But let’s do 30 seconds of analysis. This Father did everything we talked about brilliantly. Let’s analyze his case settlement campaign.
Anatomy Of A Killer Settlement Campaign
This Father our “settlement genius,” feels much better about the case and himself while exerting “real” pressure on the other side to settle.
The first seed he plants in the mind of the “X” and her attorney is that “this guys not giving up and becoming a real pain the a__!” This guys really feeling his oats now!
He then throws his case in overdrive by suing everyone involved with defaming his character and denying him his rights with his children.
He essentially creates an offer they can’t refuse. You know, like in the Godfather. He creates an offer that transcends timing. He did everything we talked about brilliantly. And if this guy can do it you can do it.
The Rest Of The Story
Now, for fun, this Father sets up mediation and his wife agrees, virtually no resemblance between the old uncooperative “X” and the “new X.”
At mediation she still digs in her heels a bit but the important point is that she is at the negotiation table; where prior to Al’s implementation of our system Al wasn’t even in the ballpark.
Now, mediation continues for several sessions and our Father and the “X” actually agree on several points except a new parenting plan for the kids, the amount of money she’ll get paid every month for child support and for the maintenance that she was still demanding.
Our guy smelled blood at this point even though the “X” wasn’t agreeing to everything. He sensed that the “X” really didn’t want to jump back into the arena --- he smelled fear for the first time.
8 sessions later and a little concession on his part and the parties struck a settlement.
Now, it’s easy to sit here and read this nice neat little story summarizing almost a year of this guys life and think that that’s all well and good, but, “I’m sitting here in the trenches slugging it out.” Believe me, it can happen to you too!
But, it won’t all be a bed of roses. There are problems with every case, even if we had three times as many lessons we couldn’t solve every conceivable problem in every single case. And we don’t even try to solve everything in this short course.
I want to talk about the problems and how to solve them in our final lesson. www.fathershelphotline.com

Two Big Secrets You Need To Know

Lesson 5
Two Big Secrets You Need To Know
The secret to Father’s rights is that if you want impact, if you want a positive response from the other side, you must have repetition. The two are inextricably linked. One does not happen without the other. But you cannot be unreasonable in your demands either. You can’t afford to cause more problems in your case by making unreasonable and emotional demands.
You need a guerilla warfare kind of repetition, and that’s what I’m going to show you with this example. Just one example of a rights-winning system, but certainly a very good one that, in any case will make a difference in 45 days or less.
Now, I’m going to show you one example. Got to quickly convince you, you can move the example to your case. And, it doesn’t matter whether you have a reasonable “X” or an extremely difficult person to deal with. It doesn’t matter whether she has a “blood-sucking” attorney or not. It doesn’t matter what County or State you’re in. None of that matters.
Let me quickly try and prove it to you. These are a few letters about what I’m going to share with you that crossed my desk recently.
This is from a Father from Florida. He says, “I was extremely frustrated in my case and was afraid to keep trying to place pressure while “throwing out the settlement line” as you instruct. Well, I was wrong. On the 5th attempt over several months we reached settlement and saved a ton in legal fees; avoiding trial.” “This is the only way to go.”
This is a Father in California. There were false allegations in his case. “Your system’s the most beneficial thing I’ve done to get my case settled for the benefit of our children.”
This is a dentist from Ohio. “I’m amazed, not only did I settle our case my assets were left, to a large degree, “intact” even though she was going for blood from the beginning, all thanks to your Father’s Rights system.
This is a truck driver from Illinois. “I reduced my legal fees by 70% once I became involved with my case; becoming a participant rather than an observer; thanks to your system.”
This is a CPA from Washington State. “I actually had the IRS pay a portion of my child support once I learned how to turn child support into a tax deduction.” “And, that’s surprising since I’m a CPA.”
I’ve got hundreds of them I could share with you and I have a ton of success stories like these on my website. So however difficult the case, the system works.
A Step By Step Example
The example I’m going to show you comes from a Father in North Carolina. I use it with all our members for two reasons. One, if you had an arena full of Father’s, they’d all swear it won’t work; especially in their case because the “X” is a b___!” Father’s pretty much don’t try something that has emotional risk. And if they do anything, they keep up a protective shield.So this is settlement letter number one to get the pump “primed” so to speak. The letter is dated and addressed in a formal manner; however, the salutation says “Dear Ginny” I’ll read you just two paragraphs. “I know that we have may have had our differences, but the most important thing now is not to operate from fear to the detriment of our kids.” “Now, more than ever, we need to work out the issues between us in the best interests of our children, or, someone else will make the decision for us.” I have taken the liberty to outline what I believe to be fair for “all” concerned; but, if you disagree with anything I’ve suggested, please don’t react in anger. My suggestion is that we get together to discuss things, or, if you’d feel more comfortable we can mediate with a professional.
It goes on to present specific solutions to the problems, which includes, parenting issues, custody, property settlement child support and more. But, most importantly, at the end it states in no uncertain terms that he won’t give up and won’t roll over for unfairness. Meet ½ way, yes, but not be steam-rolled.
My point is what happens to every “X” that gets this letter and does not respond? 15 days later, they get a second one.
This letter goes on to restate the problem, restate the solution, remake the offer. And it works and most often gets response. That’s not what’s important to our conversation. What’s important is what happens to everybody that gets letter number one and letter number two and still does not respond? A month or so later, they get letter number three. I’m certain you get the picture.
Here’s what you have to ask yourself seriously for just a second. Do you have any doubt that any “X” that gets the three letters, and if necessary even more follow up over time is not going to at least consider settling? It’s important to note that you keep “fighting” your case if necessary during the process if she’s filed against you or set a hearing. Again, you have to exert pressure to gain relief.
For the price of three letters, you have taken a pro-active approach and are the dominant force in your case in 45 days or less. You can’t do it more efficiently than that.
The Magic Is In The Structure
Now, a few Father’s are saying, “Wait a minute! You don’t know my “X”, she’ll never go for that. She’ll just laugh and think I’m a fool.
Well, there are very good reasons for doing it anyway. Firstly, you just may surprise yourself and make some progress, but, if not, as you get further into litigation, you’ve lessened the chances of being hit with her legal fees and you’ll impress the judge with your approach as well!
But if you like, you can separate style from structure. What’s most important is the structure. Let me show you. Regardless of the hostility of their X’s many Father’s have used the three-letter system in their cases. Of all the cases I’ve seen, “positive responses to letter number one was 7%, letter number two 8% and letter number three, 3%. Total response, 18 percent.”
Now, there’s two things you’ve got to know. Number one, nobody gets 18 percent positive responses from the other side, if they even try to settle their cases right from the very beginning. My members, but nobody else does. But what’s more important, if they stopped where everybody stops, with letter number one, in their case they’d leave 11 percent of a chance behind. They don’t get it, they don’t know it was there to get. Maybe they have an unsuccessful instead of a successful experience. There’s magic in the structure itself which magnetically attracts a positive result.
Don’t get me wrong, as you can see by doing the numbers, “most” of the time this method does not work; but, this is just one method for settlement and we haven’t even gone to court yet, nor approached any of the other players.
I figured that if this one method works on disagreeable X’s what happens if we tried it on all the other players, as well? It has since become one of my most reliable Magnetic Power Pleading models of the nearly 100 that I teach. And I recommend highly that you try it.
Now, in lesson 6, I’m going to tell you a closing story. This story keeps promises I made to you at the beginning of this course. www.fathershelphotline.com

How To Dominate Your Case In 45 Days Or Less At Little Or No Cost To You

Lesson 4
How To Dominate Your Case In 45 Days Or Less At Little Or No Cost To You
Here’s the next challenge. How do you take the message you so lovingly crafted and deliver it to the people who are influential in your case, in a way that’s effective, efficient, affordable and involves little or no emotional turmoil – I’m philosophically opposed to getting emotionally involved – and will always “opt” for a systematic, well planned approach that keeps you involved with the case. How do you do that?Well, if you make a list, and if you stop to think about it, there are many things you can do to prepare your case. Dependent upon your specific case, you can begin keeping a chronological diary of events, begin writing down what you want and why, begin obtaining sworn affidavits from people that attest to your abilities as a Father, draft a spread sheet listing assets and debts, close all joint accounts to protect your credit and assets and seek the services of a Pro-Father Attorney if you so choose. On and on and on and on. Here’s a couple of things you need to know. First of all, all that stuff works, and it all can be made to work better with good methods. But only a handful of all those things can be converted into a system. And system’s one of my favorite words. System means reliable, consistent, predictable results. You get it working once and then it keeps working on its own for a long, long, time before you have to tweak with it again.
We need a Father’s Rights Winning system. And the example I’m going to show you of a system is so predictable, so reliable, so consistent, that you go to bed at night, when you have this working for you, knowing – not hoping, wishing, not even praying, but knowing – within a small, acceptable range of variance, that good things will happen in your case, even if it takes a little time --- for as long as you use the system. And it’s like a thermometer. You can even turn it up or down to get more or less results anytime of the week, month or year that you want them. It’s that scientific. So I’m going to show you one example of one system. This example does several things. It demonstrates to you what a system ought to look like, versus just catch as catch can. It shows you how to take a message, deliver it to the right people in a way that’s effective, efficient and affordable. And this one has a bonus to it. This one shows you how to begin the case and dominate it in 45 days or less with little or no financial cost. You become the dominant presence in your case. If you can define what you’re seeking whether you’re bringing a simple motion before the court, going through an evaluation, or working on a trial situation, in 45 days or less you’ll be a dominant force to reckon with. The players in the case know who you are, what you do and why they ought to do “business” with you,
A "Stolen" Strategy
There’s a couple of caveats, things I have to tell you about this before I show it to you. The first is I stole it. I’m a huge believer in creative theft. Frankly some of the “best” ideas are stolen and the older I get the less interested I am in blazing a new path. Pioneers come home full of arrows. So I’m interested in stuff that works.
But I get to do something you don’t get to do. Over the last 19 years, I’ve worked with clients in 5 different countries and in every State in the Union. So you, today’s a weird day for you because you’re in a position that you’ve never been in before and it’s an emotional meat grinder! But whether you realize it or not, you belong to a nationwide fraternity of Father’s that have already “plowed” the way for you. They’ve already found success, tried the new techniques, taken the bumps and bruises and fount the appropriate winning actions for you.
All great advancements come from outside the box, not inside the box. As a Father’s Rights consultant, I get to work with Father A in a given State. And because everybody’s mostly closed minded, while I’m working with him I notice something that’s phenomenally effective. Hardly anybody in other areas is doing it but could be doing it. I borrow it from case to case, count to county, state to state and I take it over and I teach it to Father B in another area entirely. And while I’m over there, I notice something he may be doing that hardly anybody else is doing but could be doing. So I borrow it from Father B and I take it back and I teach it to Father A. I call this the Mirroring Principle which is basically copying what works. The advantage that I have, that you don’t, is that I see a multiplicity of cases on a day to day basis and you don’t!
This particular system I’m going to show you as an example I borrowed over the last, almost, 20 years, by observation and personal experience in 1,000’s of cases. Success breeds success and the way you gain success is to copy people that know what they’re doing.
Another word for this technique is called “farming” and I stole it from the Real Estate business. What they mean, if you hear them talking about farming, what a realtor means by farming is getting a small, carefully-selected, manageable target market, and then nurturing it, setting out to become a dominant presence.
From a Father’s Rights perspective this means getting to know all of the players in your case. Not personally, necessarily, but know them well enough to know what they want from you in order for them to give you what you want. Even cross-pollinating a bit like a bee dropping off and picking up bits of information here and there that are to your benefit; making everyone know what the other players are doing, or, hiding it, dependent upon what’s the most advantageous to your case at the time.
The Biggest Mistake Most Father’s Make
The biggest mistake Father’s make in using this method is “not” thinking outside the box. They assume, for instance, that the “X” and her attorney are “not” players. They’re dead wrong! The judges, the judges bailiff, your attorney if you have one, her attorney, Guardian Ad Litems, evaluators, court clerks and even the “X” are all players that may be able to help you gain what you’re looking for. [And this is a short list – be creative – think!]
Now, two quick caveats:
First of all, be Pro-Active in your case and stay on the offense. Most Father’s are reactive instead of proactive! They’re constantly acting like retrievers, running after every little argument that the “X” throws at them.
Which brings me to the second caveat. As soon as I start to talk about it, one-third of the ears in the room flop right over. “Man, we’ve tried being Pro-Active. It doesn’t work in our state. A couple things about that.
First of all, you and I go through life only doing the things that work real, real well for us the very first time we do them.
Secondly, you have not tried being Pro-Active the way I’m going to show you how to be Pro-Active. In fact, almost every Father makes this mistake when they do try it. They get all hyped up and start out positive, then, go to court and almost no matter what happens, ugly, bad, good, they never keep being Pro Active. Or if they do, it’s three, six, eight months later and extremely inconsistent.
Don’t waste your time. Never do a one-shot approach. Let me explain to you why that can’t work.
The last thing the “X” wants to hear from you from the beginning stages of the case [with rare exceptions] is a settlement offer. However, as the case develops and you continue to place pressure on the other side by appealing every little order and filing your own motions in a persistent pattern, emotions and circumstances change. Again, it’s like fishing, you never know when they’ll bite.
What makes Father’s think they can make one offer, or file one motion and get a positive response, it’s a mystery to me. This is especially true when most women expect you to roll over and give them what they want just because they rant, rave, and otherwise, make themselves a complaining nuisance in court. Your single offer doesn’t even phase her – she doesn’t even feel the breeze.
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The Secret For Getting Your Message Heard – Loud And Clear

Lesson 3
The Secret For Getting Your Message Heard – Loud And Clear
For good or bad, and it’s a debate that may have nothing to do with us father’s, being a “good boy” in court and doing what’s expected of us is dead. It’s gone, buried, forget it
So if you say to me, it’s really tough out here in my state, or you don’t understand that this judge is prejudiced, I’m going to tell you, firstly, that it’s no different anywhere else and that you “must” leverage your resources. It’s matching your message with the “right” person that needs to hear it; finding that decision-maker in your case, whether it be the judge, the family law evaluator, psychologist, or parenting plan evaluator.
And it begs the issue of focusing your resources with the goal of impacting the people in your case who are perfectly matched with what it is that you have to say and who truly have a substantial influence in your case. [Hint is usually not only the judge as we’d all like to believe].So we’re going to start to talk about targeting the key people in your case. We’ll take a few minutes on this. And if you know nothing else about family law and legal representation, you’ll instantly understand the first thing on the list.
The first thing is to find out who is the decision maker in the case. And, at first, you may think that this is the judge, when, in reality the judge usually follows the recommendations of someone, whether its an evaluator, a Guardian Ad Litem, or even legal counsel recommendations. Contrary to popular belief, judges “don’t” like to make decisions, they like to rubber stamp someone else’s findings; especially if they have credentials.
I can guarantee, that if there’s an evaluation of some kind going on; from parenting “evals” to property appraisals, the judge is going to place heavy emphasis on these peoples’ decisions. So, make certain you realize this and try to influence these people as much as possible. The best way to do this is to submit information to them in writing and attach references and sworn declarations supporting your position.
Don’t get me wrong, you’re not brown nosing, you’re just trying to manipulate effectively.
If there are not evaluators in your case, then maybe the judge will follow the “logical” recommendations of legal counsel. So, even the opposing side attorney, is a person that you can try to impress, manipulate and negotiate with; even if you can’t talk to the “X.”
Remember, you must be persistent in court and try to settle at the same time. One of my favorite sayings for Father’s in family law situations is to “Exert pressure to gain relief!” It’s also advisable to contact the opposing side --- kind of like fishing. Throw the settlement line out there once in a while to see if they’ll bite; but, also let them know that your persistence and determination will not go away until fairness is achieved.
Why You Want To Be More Clever Than Opposing Side
Many people think because they’re not an attorney they’re at a disadvantage in representing themselves. Or, because they’re men, that they can’t win. Again, nothing could be further from the truth! In fact, your strength in who you are and just being yourself “can” be your strongest advantage. Forget the case law and the “legal-mumbo-jumbo”. Present an “emotional-gut-level” appeal to the court and to the influential people in your case --- don’t give up, and you’ll be absolutely amazed at what can happen.
The opposing side attorney is typically “cold” and has no real interest in the case. And, this shows, no matter how much he pretends or how much legal knowledge and experience he has. So, you may think that you’re at a disadvantage, when really you’ve got the upper hand. Use it!
I’m in my office one day and I get a phone call from a Father. He says, “Look, I’ve tried your methods. Most recently, I’ve spent a great deal of time organizing my case. I’ve followed the ideas in your system. I’ve been writing up detailed pleadings till I’m blue in the face. I’ve followed your examples perfectly and I’m still getting screwed.”
This is not a good call. So I’ve got to ask questions. Turns out this guy is going through a divorce and owns his own business, making a good deal of income. I said, “Okay, are there court orders in the case yet? He said, “Yes, I went to court with my attorney and the judge didn’t read a word of what I wrote.” “She got everything.”
I said, “Okay, what can you tell me about the hearing.” “What type of hearing was it.” He said, it was a hearing on a restraining order in which she made false allegations --- all lies!” I said, “ok, you need to understand that at a restraining order hearing the judges job is to, basically, separate the parties and make certain he’s not going to see them back in court again on these issues.”
I went on to say that, “you need to understand that this sort of hearing is at the infancy stages of the case and that the resulting order is merely a “band-aid.” There are many things still left to do to change matters radically!”
You don’t know how many Father’s figure they’re screwed; even at this initial stage. They really don’t pursue anything much further. Even their attorney’s help perpetrate the myth that there’s not much else you can do, so they don’t have to do any more work than is absolutely necessary. [Obviously, this is not the case with all lawyers] This is why you must absolutely be involved in your case – directing traffic! And, for this you need real concrete information.
That information is readily available if you know where to look for it and how to get it, so you can precisely give yourself the greatest probability of success.
Are You Wasting Your Money Being a By-Stander In Your Case?
To prove to him the incredible importance of all this, we did some free research for him. I got a copy of his resulting orders and read both her paperwork and his. I come to find out that he was right, just a bunch of “nonsense” that couldn’t be proven either way. “Unfortunately,” I explained to him, “this kind of nonsense is “very common” in domestic cases and especially at the infancy stages of a case.
And by the way, if you haven’t done a little field research in your case and you haven’t observed “live” courtroom hearings in the exact same court room that you’ll be appearing in, venture out. Take a look. You’ve got to go into their own habitat, right when family law hearings begin is a good time. It’s when you’ll find all the “players” in a position where you can check them out without feeling intimidated, without anything on the line and without them realizing who you are.
So we’re discussing his case and digging further into actually what happened and how he “supposedly” got screwed. And here’s what we find. Although his soon-to-be “X” wife asked for an order of protection, the judge went ahead and set child support and visitation anyway. I explained to him that the judge really didn’t have the “jurisdiction” to make this kind of decision since the “X” really didn’t ask for it. I also explained that if he didn’t object to it and appeal or revise the order --- that it would stand. In fact, if you don’t complain about it, this coupled together with the passage of time, actually sets a precedent and works to your extreme disadvantage to change the order in the future.
He explained to me that he didn’t realize he could appeal it. This is often the case with most Father’s. Too often they accept whatever the judge “doles out” --- without ever contesting it or complaining about it in the proper fashion. You must say the right thing, in the right manner, to the right person to obtain the results you’re looking for! If any of those ingredients are missing, you lessen the likelihood of getting what you want.
I say to the Father, “you must appeal each and every decision if it’s not in your favor.” “This accomplishes two very important things. 1) You increase the odds of improving your order and 2) This places more pressure on the other side; increasing their costs – both financial and emotional.”
I call this the “Paper Blizzard” technique. Part of the technique is to wear out the other side --- like pealing and onion – it just keeps getting worse and worse for the “X” – crying more and more. “You see’” I said, “you’ve got to give them a reason to settle.” Without pressure on the other side --- the proper motivation so to speak, she’ll keep asking for more and more and “snicker” at you along the way. This technique levels the playing field!
The second big question to ask yourself, in your own way, are you making the same, dumb mistakes, wasting bullets on targets that even if you hit them, it doesn’t count? The biggest leverage you are going to find is taking small, efficient, steps to get big results. A small amount of persistent, learning, understanding and using Father’s rights winning techniques will gain you “big” results!
Let’s assume for the sake of our conversation, we figured that out. We’ve got two of the three things. We’ve got a powerful, emotion-driven, message. At it’s core, a great proposition for the court. And we have found exactly who we want to deliver the message to and we have excluded a whole bunch of people we do not want to waste time on. So we’ve got a great message, we’ve got great potential.
What do we need next to be successful? You'll discover that in lesson 4. www.fathershelphotline.com

The Most Important Question You Must Ask Yourself

Lesson 2
The Most Important Question You Must Ask Yourself
The first main issue regarding Father’s rights is delivering the “right” message. What is that message, “your” message? What do you say to the court, to the opposing side and to all concerned, including potential evaluators, that is compelling, that is magnetic, that cannot be ignored, that must be responded to? Do you have a great message? We’re going to ask some questions and find out.Secondly, who do you say it to, and by deliberate strategy who do you not say it to? Being efficient in your case. Are you efficient? Are you smart about this? Or are you throwing mud against the wall? We’re going to ask some questions and find out. And third, the “packaging”, how are you prepared to deliver the message to the recipients? Do you do that effectively? Do you do that efficiently? Do you do that in a way that makes your message “easy to follow” magnetically attracting them to your cause? We’re going to take a look at that.So in each of these three things, I’m going to give you one or two key ideas to take with you. And for starters, I want to send you home with the single most important question anybody’s going to ask you about your case.Master this one question, you take a quantum leap in ability to gain what you want for yourself and for your children.. This is the single most important question because the right answer to it, as I’ll demonstrate, is the key to the father’s rights vault. It doesn’t just marginally increase your chances, it multiplies them far beyond the ability of most father’s to even conceive. It’s that important. And I’ll give you a model, a demonstration.Now the technical term for the answer to this question is what differentiates you from all others, direct and indirect. And here’s the question. Why should the judge Guardian Ad Litem or Evaluators, give you what you’re asking for versus doing what they usually do – going along with the Mother? Why should they choose to do business with you, so to speak, versus any and every other option available to them? And when you have a great answer to that question, you can turn things upside-down.
How Passion, Overcoming Fear of the Unknown and Persistence Can Turn Your Case Into A Father’s Rights Winning Machine
In Lesson 1 we talked about being prepared, now, I’m going to give you a model to use to take that one step further. A model of one of the best approaches a Father can use in seeking his rights and those of his children. And, here’s the model:You must be prepared in writing prior to the hearing in such a manner that your paperwork is professional in every regard; so that it looks and smells and feels just like what “they’re” used to looking at. Then, you must overcome any fear or apprehension that you may have by presenting your message with an “impassioned emotional approach,” while letting “all” involved know that you’ll never give up! That’s it!
So what you want to do with this model is lay it down next to your own situation, and see how it compares. And, if it doesn’t compare very well, then this one’s a good place to start to build an unbeatable case.All too often, we as father’s are defeated before we begin. We listen to everyone tell us that we can’t win and that it’s no use. But, nothing could be further from the truth. I have an arsenal of father’s that have won “all” or most of what they wanted with their kids and regarding all other aspects of their cases; all by following the above model.
On the strength of this model many father’s not only almost immediately turned their cases around, but multiplied their successes. Pretty soon, some even dominated their cases and won custody. This unique model has been so powerful – think about this – that for many father’s you could go anywhere in the courthouse or in the legal community in which they reside, picking people at random and chances are they would know these father’s. This is what a good job they’ve done and how “convicted” they were about what they wanted and what was right for them and for their children. Believe me, word gets around when you’re “pushy” for the right reasons!If we go to your courthouse tomorrow and ask people about you and most instantly respond by telling us about you, how persistent you are and what a great job you do, what’s your case going to look like? That’s called case dominance. That’s what many father’s achieve. They turn their cases upside-down and had the opposing side trying to catch up. You can do it too, with the leverage the above model will give you.Now, if you’ve used portions of the model previously, that’s all well and good. But what I’ve said should hopefully motivate you not just to guess and shrug, but to want to microscopically analyze this “entire model” to find clues that you can use to strengthen your own case.So the first little homework assignment is to think about why should the court and others give you what you want versus granting the opposing side what they want? How’s your answer? How’s your message?
Second, let’s just assume you figured all that out. Let’s assume you’ve got a great case message. At its core is passion and persistence. We’re excited about getting it into court, mediation or to others that need to hear our message. It’s so good we’re ready to take on whatever the court system throws at us. Here’s the next challenge: The world’s greatest case message is no better than the world’s worst case message if it’s shouted at deaf ears. We do this a lot. Most father’s are not any more sophisticated about pleading their cases than they were two decades ago. In fact, here’s the level of sophistication that most father’s unfortunately settle for. Print up some sloppily written paperwork and argue that what’s happening “just ain’t fair!” Now they go to court and hope. We can do better. And in lesson 3, I'll reveal how and why we can easily do better. www.fathershelphotline.com

The Electrifying Power Of "Perseverance

Lesson 1
The Electrifying Power Of "Perseverance"
In this 7-part course, I'm going to give specific, usable, 1-2-3 Father's Rights strategies that apply to any Father, in any situation, that have you seeing results in your case within 90 days or less. I’m going to give you one complete strategy you can use exactly as I describe it to you at the end of this course, that you will be able to go and apply and I can make a virtual certain bet that none of you are using it exactly as I will describe it to you, but that most of you can. And again, you will be able to see results in your case in 90 days or less as a result.
So we’re going to do some real practical stuff. I am here to help you "improve" your case, spend more time with your kids and reduce your child support to the lowest possible level.
There are a couple of things I ‘d like you to know about me before we get rolling. One: There are a lot of what I call the “pretend experts,” the folks who live in their past, remembering cases only in their nightmares, and now "litter" the internet telling father's how to do what it is that even they haven't done. It's a whole lot easier to write a book than it is to do it. Or, that they did it so long ago that their information just no longer matters.
I only make speeches or give interviews about 4-5 times a year. It’s only a small part of my life. The rest of my life is like yours. It’s in the real world, dealing with clients who have "real life" problems with child support, custody issues and "nasty" X wives.......major "life" issues. Everything we talk about here today will be reality-based, not theory-based and patterned after the vicarious experiences of other Father's who were in the same position as you may be in today; and, that is very important!
Do You Hate These Things Too?
I have two hate lists for you that pretty much summarize where we’re going to go in this course. If you're involved in a case and sign a child support check every month, then one of the key things on your list of things that you hate should be being what I call a “wallet with legs.” When I say that, you should get a mental picture. That’s when you get the big, black checkbook out and you sign one of those checks over to your "X", and you know that it's not going to the kids but to support "her" lifestyle.
I had that same queasy feeling when I signed that check. Bet you do, too. Going to show you how to reduce or eliminate it, how to make every dollar you spend on support count as much as possible for your kids; making every dollar trackable, accountable, measurable, and come back to you in the form of peace of mind!
If you aren't the primary parent for your kids through no fault of your own, number one on your hate list should be the "X" telling you what to do with the kids on your time or, otherwise, frustrating your access to them!! An old friend of mine would call that "controlling" and "rude." I agree! There's nothing pleasant about the process of trying to talk to the "X" on a reasonable basis when she sticks her nose into everything you do with the kids and tries to keep them from you on a frequent basis --- acting as those they're her personal possessions --- at least emotionally, if not physically. The conflict causes you to back away from the kids faster than moving towards them.
I grew up in the Detroit Michigan, where the Winter's are cold and the salt on the streets in the Winter corrodes your car. And to me, dealing with the "X" on these issues is like dealing with a corroded car in the dead of Winter. It’s frigid work and corrodes your heart. So regardless of what you have done before, as a result of what we do in this course you should never have to deal with these situations again as long as you live. I’m going to show you how to eliminate them, as much as possible, from your existence and change the way you interact with the "X" …..spending more time with your kids.
“From Annoying Pest To Welcome Guest”
One quick story to set the stage for where we’re going to go, then we’ll roll up our sleeves and get to work. This story gets us acquainted and sets our direction.
In my business I work with many different kinds of people, intelligent, average, dumb, those that speak English, those that don't, those that have court experience, those that don't and people everywhere in between.
So, generally, the question almost always come up "How can I do this myself, I don't feel comfortable in court?"
I remember years ago, I was working with a nice fellow from the Philippines who could barely speak English and who acted scared as hell of going to court because of it! One of the things that I do most often is act as a kind of cheerleader trying to convince father's that they "can" do this as long as they're prepared. It doesn't matter if you can speak English or not, or even if you're scared as hell. If you're prepared, in writing and package your case correctly, you'll do as well as anyone.
So, this guy spends a great deal of time writing up a responsive declaration to a restraining order that his wife is trying to obtain against him. He also responds to her false and/or grossly distorted allegations involving parenting and divorce, serves everything correctly...to all the right parties and files everything correctly at the different departments of the court. He goes to court with the following strategy.....he says to the judge "your honor, I'm a little nervous today, so I've taken the time to put everything I have to say in writing." "If you have any questions, your honor, please ask me."
Well, here's what happens, because the guy spoke very little English, acted nervous and had the "guts" to be there in the first place, the judge actually began helping him out...actually jumping on his side, chewing out the "X" wife for bringing such an outrageous request before the court and scolding her for trying to keep the kids from him. The judge not only gave him what he wanted, he asked if it was enough! True story!
Amazing....not really...no matter what your situation, whether child support, visitation, custody, modifications of child support, custody or visitation modifications, divorce, wage garnishments, drivers license suspensions or other father's rights issues, take heart in knowing that preparation is the key! Becoming aware of basic court rules and procedures and, coupled together with a little ambition….writing up a basic response…..can work wonders in your case. Really!
Now, here’s what’s instructive. Here’s what’s useful.
At that precise moment in court for my Philippino friend, he went from being the most annoying pest to the most welcomed guest ever to visit the courtroom, because he was there with a sincere, well prepared, message at just the right moment in time. Now, the reason it’s instructive is because know it or not, acknowledge it or not, like hearing it or not, the vast majority of the time that you try and communicate with your " X", her attorney or the court you are categorized as a pest, not as the most welcomed guest of the day, week, month or year. And I’m here to tell you that if you discover how to change that – I call it addressing the first square on the father's rights game board – if you change that, you automatically change everything. Everything else suddenly gets easy if you become what we call a “can-do father's rights advocate.”But other than that, here’s my contention. If you want to increase the odds of improving your case, if you want to spend more time with your kids, if you want to protect your assets and give her a higher percentage of the debts, if you want to establish paternity with a full set of father's rights, if you want to pay as little child support as possible and make certain that what you do pay goes to the kids, you don’t do it with a slick presentation and a new magic seven-word manipulative phrase you pop out of your mouth at the hearing like Perry Mason. You do it from the beginning of the process with preparation and the will to persevere! And, if you become a "can-do father's rights advocate'" as we’re going to talk about, then your odds of success goes way up without improving your legal knowledge whatsoever and ..without an attorney if you so choose..But if you want to remain too scared to try, that’s fine. My contention, though, is if you want to improve your personal case, you don’t need experience and you don't necessarily need an attorney. Instead, what you do is become a welcomed-guest in the court room by being prepared, in writing prior to the hearing. This shows respect for the court's process and the court becomes more prone to grant what you're asking for.So that’s what we're all about. That’s what we do for our clients....we prepare them for court by giving them as much legal information as possible. Not legal advice, just solid legal information based upon what other successful father's have done in their situations. Every time we do it and build a relationship with a new client, we cover three main issues. We deal with three steps. I’m going to run you through them very quickly in lesson 2. www.fathershelphotline.com

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