The Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is the systematic denigration by one parent by the other with the intent of alienating the child against the other parent.
The purpose of the alienation is usually to gain or retain custody without the involvement of the father. The alienation usually extends to the father's family and friends as well.
All Fathers out there that are experiencing parental alienation -- we would like to hear your story and get a good discussion going about it.
Dennis Gac, President NBFR
dennis@fathershelphotline.com
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Don't even think for a second that and ex-wife would not be successful in turning the hearts of your ADULT children against you, as compared to the wee ones. Parental Alienation Syndrome knows no boundaries of destruction. I was barred from my daughter’s recent wedding as well as my son’s more recent wedding solely based on scurrilous rumors and false assumptions. Unfortunately it may take years before four of my five children see through my ex’s narcissistic behavior. She even made the effort to drive 500 miles to convince my mother that I divorced her because I was chasing other women (cheating) as well as coming out of the closet as gay. I did NOT commit adultery! Not that I have any ill feelings towards homosexuals, it’s just that “Homey don’t go dat way, ya hear!” “It ain’t gonna happen!” At least I was able to dispel the lies with my mother before she passed away a few months ago, and I was able to introduce her to my new wife, Roxanne. Of course Roxie is diametrically the opposite of my ex in every possible way. She really sweet too!
Glenn G.
I represent a father who married his overseas bride from the internet, put her through college and masters program, has 2 children with her and is now being kicked out since the Wife has imported her mother.
She is now only allowing the children to speak in her native tongue, ensuring that father does not understand what is going on. She has accused him or rape and the mother has accused him of assault.
He is being set up beautifully to never see his children again. We have a Pendente Lite hearing this Friday. It will be interesting to see whose side the judge sees more clearly.
I am not sure what qualifies as PAS, but, I was at one of my little girls softball practices playing catch with my 4yr old son when he said "wow dad, you are pretty cool". The soon to be X was within earshot, and replied "well you are a little sucker aren't ya?" I didn't say anything. I recently called to talk with my son, and heard him say in the background, "I don't want to talk to dad, I hate him" Is it just being 4? or is it PAS?
Thanks,
Mike
I have endured sexual abuse allegations and a female misandrist guardian ad litem (GAL)that advocates for my ex wife. My 6 year old son son is seeing a shrink (and has been since he was three because of my ex's allegations), but the guardian ad liem doesn't believe him that my son isn't being sexually abused. In fact, the GAL requsested that the court order my son to undergo sexual abuse victims group (to which the court eagerly agreed), EVEN THOUGH ALL OTHER PROFESSIONALS ASSERT HE IS NOT A VICTIM OF SEXUAL ABUSE!!!! My shrink isn't being believed. The ex has been ordered to submit psych eval like I have, but the GAL has made excuses for her contempt, so my psych eval is on record but hers is not. By the virtue of my birth as a man, I am being attacked by the GAL, continuously. I shouldn't be angry at the false accusations of sexual abuse?!? In the state of OK, the GAL has such power and is not held accountable by a discovery code nor by rules of evidenciary procedure. AND most judges just defer to the GAL when making rulings in contested custody battles.
I have been fighting false accusations by my ex-wife for over 10 years. She would let my son visit me if I would allow her to be involved in our lives and has said that she would let my son live with me but they are a packaged deal. We started an all out custody fight over two years ago because my son was feeling ill when he had to return to his mother and had said he would like to live with me and visit his mother on weekends. Since the start of the custody fight she has managed to erase all of my sons memories of how close we had been since his birth and that I was the person who was the main caregiver. He now says he does not want to live with me does not want to visit as often as the divorce decree states. Granted he is getting older and does have other interests but his memories and thoughts have changed so drastically that it has to be PAS. We have been to a Psychologist for custodial evaluation but the ex-wife took in a 10 page letter with her pack of lies and even though we all had to take psych evals she has convinced the Psychologist that she is the victim. This woman is a master manipulator and how do you even begin to fight that kind of person?
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