From: Dennis M. Gac
Dear Father,

Periodically, we interview fathers who have made it BIG in gaining more rights in their cases by using the The Fathers Rights Protection System ... I'm NOT talking about high powered, highly educated guys.

I'm talking about "Average Joes" who often started out just as apprehensive as you may be, and who now...

Have increased rights with their children, the likes of which they never dreamed possible just a few short months ago"

... In fact, many of these people guys pay little or no child support and have tremendous time with their kids?.some even have full custody and primary care.
Here are some examples of people you'll be reading about:

Real-Life Case Study #1
Don Presley (206) 683-4721
Don knew that he had the potential to be a great father to his kids, even though the "X" obtained a fraudulent restraining order against him! He used The Fathers Rights Protection System .
Discover how Don found a way to get back on track with his kids, get rid of the restraining order and turn his entire life around after suffering from depression for a period of time!

Real-Life Case Study #2
Chris Brown (425) 343-3601
Chris started out fighting his "X" after 23 years of marriage. False allegations and a brutal court assault against Chris left him devastate and emotionally crippled. .. but it quickly turned around once Chris became "empowered" with legal strategies he could use right away in his case to make a difference! Find out how Chris's strategies got the "X" back on her heels for a change! Chris used The Fathers Rights Protection System.

Real-Life Case Study #3
Bev Autrey
Bev never thought she'd be fighting in court for her grandchild -- in fact, she just wanted to enjoy her grandchild along with her retirement. She never believed that her son not seeing the child would affect he rights too!
But her son had huge issues with his "X" girlfriend not letting him see thier child and he was limited as to what he could do. Discover how Bev's efforts not only helped her situation, but inspired the women in fathers lives! Bev used The Fathers Rights Protection System .

Real-Life Case Study #4
Dan Buckett (253) 350-8276
After finding his wife was cheating on him, Dan just wanted a divorce and to move on with his life --- being a meaningful part of his kids lives. But when he saw how underhanded his "X" wife was and how she frustrated access to his kids and "extracted" as much money as possible from him in child support, he decided to learn what to do and launch a full scale offensive attack!
One year later, he's got the kids at least 50% of the time, lowered his child support by 75% and has the "X", quite literally scared to go to court. Dan used The Fathers Rights Protection System

Real-Life Case Study #5
James Christianson
James thought he was screwed in his case because his daughter was just a baby. James wanted custody and was told by several lawyers that "he had no chance." James' deep-rooted love for his daughter and his belief that he was "best suited" to care for her prompted him to learn the "legal maneauvers" necessary to gain custody and primary care!
Find out how James successfully fought his case in an extremely prejudicial system -- while many fathers just give up! James used The Fathers Rights Protection System .

OTHER TESTIMONIALS

Dear Dennis:
"The techniques from The Fathers Rights Protection System helped me do that three attorneys couldn't (or wouldn't) do. I was able to get a powerful, biased, and dangerous guardian ad litem removed from my case, pro se! She was so mad! Dennis held my hand as I encountered resistance from the court house, telling me to 'go bounce some heads!' He reviewed my motions, shared cases (that worked) to apply to my motion, and kept me going when it seemed the cards were all stacked against me. Quite honestly they are! But thanks to NBFR, I am learning to stack the deck in my favor. My motion was sustained and now that that hurdle has been overcome, I now have more. But I am confident due to this success and I am certain that as I continue to use Dennis' techniques of 'legal kung-fu', I will prevail over the other hurdles! For the sake of my son, I have hope, thanks to these techniques!"
Peace be with you,
Gary Barksdale
garybarksdale@ou.edu
405-476-1106

Hi Dennis,
Things have improved greatly in my case. I have full custody of my oldest son and increased time with my other two children. A court date is still pending to amend support amounts; but, I must thank you for the information I learned from in the The Fathers Rights Protection System and your blog. It has been most beneficial for me and my children. If it wasn?t for this information I would still be at the mercy of my wife and her lawyer. The tactics you explain are the real deal.
Thanks Again,
Richard P. Mikelson
rpmmillwright@hotmail.com
209-688-5134

* The testimonials and examples used are exceptional results, which do not apply to the average father, and are not intended to represent or guarantee that anyone will achieve the same or similar results. Each individual's success depends on his or her background, dedication, desire, and motivation.

------------Read On For Even More Testimonials----------

Why we started this web site -- and why NOBODY else is giving away these secrets...
Personally, I've always believed in the principle, "Model someone who's already reached the goal you want to achieve." Living by this principle, I've improved my own case and helped many others do the same -- so I know first-hand how well it works!

Of course, I've been extremely fortunate... In my lifetime, I've had some GREAT mentors... I know that for most people, it's *impossible* to find people who are willing to share their "success secrets" with you.

Successful fathers are usually SO focused on their own cases and lives that, they rarely tell anyone about their successes much less publish their secrets in books or newsletters. It's just not a priority for them.

And even if someone were willing to mentor you, how would you find them? How would you convince them to reveal their secrets? What questions would you ask? It becomes more and more complicated... and time-consuming!

... And that's why, as publisher of the #1 best-selling course on Fathers Rights, I use my clout to land interviews with real world Fathers Rights success stories and publish them on our The Fathers Rights Protection System Website.I want to make sure our members have access to"real-life" success stories that you can MODEL your case after...
"I loved the Interview with Dan Buckett who is an ordinary guy "taking the bull by the horns." I really love his sense of humor, as well, calling himself "an electrician at law" in mockery of his "X"'s attorney. I have applied his strategies that already have increased my rights with my kids. If you really want to succeed this is a must!"
Alan Roth

From your interviews, I have been clued in to techniques and legal maneuvers that are invaluable to people like me who are in need of knowledge and help, to get their situations going. Learning from people with first-hand experience is a real life-saver!
Your site has probably saved me several thousand dollars in legal fees alone! This is money I would have spent [that] I now know is a big waste of time and money. This kind of information alone is worth many times the costs of your information.
Terry

* The testimonials and examples used are exceptional results, which do not apply to the average father, and are not intended to represent or guarantee that anyone will achieve the same or similar results. Each individual's success depends on his or her background, dedication, desire, and motivation.

An 'Inside Look' into Hugely Successful Cases!

As a member of "The National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights", you'll receive our newsletters and information via e-mail letting you know about brand-new success stories and successful techniques that you can use, right now, to improve your case!

The basic fathers rights manuals and other published information by the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights has helped many fathers dramatically improve their cases, as well. Visit The Fathers Rights Protection System for More Information.

Also, the The Fathers Rights Protection System will:

Take a private tour of "Fathers Rights" cases that have already achieved their success and discover the exact step-by-step strategies they've used to generate their rights!

Walk through their lives and cases to discover exactly which specific things made them successful (and saved them money!) and which were a waste of time (so you don't waste your time on them, too!)

Hear first hand about the techniques and strategies they used to lower child support and gain custody of their children. Find out how they first started out and how they ultimately ended up; becoming an ?equal? parent.

... You'll know exactly what works and what doesn't , making it easy to apply the same techniques to your own situation.

Successful Fathers Reveal HOW They're Making Slugging In Out, In by Inch To Gain Their Rights!

Let me make one thing really clear:

These are NOT guys that have any more talent than you do that you'll be reading about. Rather, these are...

People like YOU who started from scratch, made the right moves, and now generate the momentum to get what they want and what?s best for their kids!

... You'll be privy to their struggles, their successes, their most costly mistakes, and their most profitable campaigns when reading the materials published by the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights.

You'll leave each interview with an in-depth understandingof the secrets behind their triumphs... and a crystal-clear picture of how you can apply these secrets to help build your own case.

Get An Inside Look At Fathers Like:

Real-Life Case Study #1
Bill Ranko (425) 829-1571
Bill desperately wanted to get his case over with in the most amicable way possible." So he committed to working a few hours a week on his case using the information provided in the The Fathers Rights Protection System learning by "trial and error."
Now, just a year later, Bill has full custody of his oldest son and shares custody and time with his youngest. "It was great having a track to run on and a basic plan of attack provided in Dennis" system!

Real-Life Case Study #2
Vickie C.
Vickie is a emotionally handicapped mom who knows she couldn't take care of her son and daughter, but, desperately wanted visitation and the ability to participate in their lives.
Discover the strategies she used to gain access to her children, and how she fought her own parents to gain her rights! The Fathers Rights Protection System works for women as well..

Real-Life Case Study #3
Craig Carlson
Craig's was union representative for the Teamsters and was told by 3 attorney's that his wife was going to collect 5 years of back child support when "he" had their son all during this time. He had no clue what to do!
Find out how Craig used The Fathers Rights Protection System to plan his case and save over $27,000 in child support!

Real-Life Case Study #4
Darrin Cooke (425) 268-2230
Darrin's a happy go lucky guy who fought two cases through the court system. In fact, he's still active in his case after using The Fathers Rights Protection System methods over the last 7 years. When he discovered something that worked, he got pretty excited.
Find out how Darrin got equal time with his 12 year old daughter and won full custody of his 3 year old son!

* The testimonials and examples used are exceptional results, which do not apply to the average father, and are not intended to represent or guarantee that anyone will achieve the same or similar results. Each individuals success depends on his or her background, dedication, desire, and motivation.

WARNING!Occasionally, some narrow-minded father (whose case is NOT successful) insists that he can only learn from situations and cases that are within his own State.

In fact, this is a limiting belief that will hold you back from achieving massive success.

However, if you realize that learning successful strategies from other fathers and adapting them to your own case can give you an incredible edge over your "X", keep reading...

Don't Mistake "Book Knowledge" For Real World Experience

You may already have an intellectual grasp of legal concepts and maybe you already have some experience in the court system on your own. But just imagine reading a book on "How To Perform Brain Surgery."Sure, you could read about the concepts and techniques for months.
But until you actually get in an operating room and watch experienced surgeons operate on people, you'll never be qualified to do it yourself. You'll never see how all of the concepts and techniques work together in the real world.

This is the same as improving your case!

To be effective, you need to see how other fathers have applied the concepts and techniques in the real world. This is exactly what the The Fathers Rights Protection System will do for you.

For Example...

You've probably heard that you can improve your case by getting a good lawyer. But this is no guarantee of success -- UNTIL you know the secrets of "how" to improve your case and get involved in "directing your own case" with or without an attorney.

In the , The Fathers Rights Protection System you'll learn the successful strategies other fathers have used...

You'll learn how they reached their goals and how they positioned themselves for success.

Take a tour of "Complete Fathers Rights Protection System Site" and discover...

... The EXACT tips and tricks to use to make an exceptional difference in your case by obtaining your copy of The Fathers Rights Protection System

Learn How Successful Fathers do it!

This unbelievable system shows fathers how to get unbelievable restuls in their cases regarding divorce, child support, custody and visitation, paternity, property settlements and much more!.
Since fathers have improved their cases so much, they naturally trust the recommendations found in The Fathers Rights Protection System. And that's the key. Once you've seen what others who are successful have done, you'll turn into a believer when you see success in your own case.

But you get the point: It's one thing to read about concepts; it's quite another to "stand in the surgery room" and see firsthand how fathers have acutally thrived in their cases --- applying these concepts.

This is what will "gel" the understanding in your head and show you how to make your case work. So you can truly just take these strategies and implement them in your own situation! Best of all, I'll never leave an interview until a client until I've uncovered the low-down, inside scoop on how they were successful in a particular situation, and, all of this information is covered in The Fathers Rights Protection System.!

But don't take MY word for it! Here's what just a FEW of my fathers are saying...
"Wow! I'm putting together the components of my case, and the wealth of information you have in The Fathers Rights Protection System is really helping me. After investing in the System I"m not going to join as a full member of the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights to get personalized consultation from my case.

It's one thing to learn lots of theory and techniques, but reading what other fathers have done in situations that are similar to mine really brings things into focus.

The examples given in the "System" are detailed and right to the point. They're virtual classes, teaching not only what needs to be done, but why. I especially like the detailed summaries, with the clear and specific step-by-step recommendations for what needs to be done to make things really happen in a case.
Loren MullinsCentralia, Washington

As an father just starting out in his divorce case, all of the tips and 'inside information' I can get are imperative for me to make my case a success.
"The Fathers Rights Protection System" gives me insight into how others, (who probably started out much like me), have managed their cases. I have found tips, special tools, and contacts that are absolutely invaluable.
Tom MooreNorth Carolina

"I just wanted to let you guys know that I LOVE The Fathers Rights Protection System and love being a member of your organization. Ever since signing up I have literally scoured over EVERY single word and have found your personal guidance extremely valuable.
I've learned extremely valuable information that will end up increasing my time with my kids, paying less child support and effectuating a great property settlement. Your service is well worth every penny and I would gladly recommend it to anyone trying to pursue fathers rights!
Greg BurginEverett, Washiington (206) 396-2706

More cases we've worked on nationally

ARIZONA Dan Rempel Washington State Case for Son. (602) 690-3618
CALIFORNIA Woody Kroll (714) 516-7965
Ken Sorenson (916) 225-5805
NEW YORK Lalit (212) 863-3248
DELAWARE Lawrence Kalechi (302)345-8382
GEORGIA Nathan Walker (229) 506-0321
INDIANA Rick Ruble (317) 332-5287
MINNESOTA Azbur (312) 560-8799
MISSOURI Leroy Bader (314) 580-0381
NEW JERSEY Bill Davis (609) 548-2489
OREGON/WASHINGTON STATE Aaron Ellis (206) 697 8804
Chris Lopez (503) 484-7189s
TENNESSEE Tim Collins (901) 219-8376
TEXAS Tom Cudmore (214) 287 2984
James Griffith (817) 258-3400
Steven Gardner (972) 697 8172
Richard Regos (805) 484-2690
Lalit (281) 573-8546
UTAH Tom Hunt (435) 467-5985
Steve Simpson (801) 668-0299
WASHINGTON STATE
Rick Diagle (206) 200-4982
Dr. Joseph Enge (425) 802-4851
John Reilly (206) 383-8535
Rick Osti (425) 330-4631
Ben Gaull (425)-745-1660
Glen Getcher (360) 578-2444 Louisiana Case
Geoff Talkington (509) 979-8255
Michael Mallonee (425) 761 3560
Gordy Pierce (206) 786-0986 (360) 839-8731
Sean Morrison (253) 334-4304
WISCONSIN Robert wilcox (920) 216-1229 (920) 738-3842

Please check out our websites at,

www.fathershelphotline.com or, www.fathersrightsinfo.com

I guarantee that you, too, will sharpen your knack for managing your case as you hear what other fathers have done when they've found themselves in the exact same situations that you may be in today.

Be One Of The First 25 To Order the Fathers Rights Protection System And Get These Super Bonuses!

Since I know it's 100% to your benefit to act right away, I want to sweeten the pot and give you every possible reason to say YES today! If you are one of the first 25 people to respond to this offer this month, you'll also receive the following:

Free Bonus #1:"Fathers Rights Parenting Plan"
You cannot leave anything to chance when it comes to the parenting of your children. This is an extremely detailed plan that I use with my personal clients and for which I've pieced it together over the years. Bit by bit, it has been assembled using some of the "best" protective clauses for fathers and their children. I've arranged for you to get this plan in templated format so that you can immedidately use it in your own case; right now, for FREE. Plus it's in Word for Windows format so that you can easily just cut and paste your own information right into the document and file it with your next motion in court.

Free Bonus Gift #2: "Copy Of A Successful Civil Lawsuit Againt Your X And All Who Have Helped Her" A top secret Fathers Rights lawsuit against her X and her Conspirators; including her attorey and even the judge. This is the lethal "A" Bomb that I've used in difficult cases to "jar" the other side into submission. Yep, you can literally sue her for defamation of character, interference with familial relationships, interference with business relationships and a whole lot more! I use this secret weapon with my own clients everyday to put the "X" back on her heels.... and you can too...once you see this legal pleading! And last but definitely not least, you get... (And this is HUGE).Order right now and get my "Insider" Nationwide Fathers Rights Resources As An Additional Bonus! In this amazing Resouce Directory, you will find information that can aid you in your case. Private investigators, mediators, counselors, mental health professionals and even attorneys who are father friendly. I recently revealed this information to a small, select group of fathers who attended an exclusive $1,200 per person seminar. You will discover exactly what I told these folks. This is real "insider information." Learn From Other People's Mistakes! Even if your case is going reasonably well, or, even it its just a "disaster" you'll learn from other guys that have been in the exact same situation that you're in today! You'll have a powerful opportunity to learn from others... And since many of the problems we troubleshoot are very common, you can be pretty sure that these same recommendations will apply to your case, too!Pretty impressive, right? Definitely... But can I let you in on a little secret?

To date, most of our father/clients only implement a small handful of the suggested changes that we suggest that they make in their cases! They're so busy with their new found rights --- lower child support, more time with their kids and equal decision making, most guys simply don't take the time to implement the rest...

So it's perfectly reasonable to expect that once they implement even MORE of our suggestions, even more rights will be gained! Just think, you can do the very same thing if you act now!
Gain More Rights In 90 Days... Or Pay Nothing!

Look... I don't want you to feel like you have to decide "now."

So instead, I'm inviting you to invest in The Fathers Rights Protection System or join as a full member of the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights by clicking on Membership.
Either way you'll obtain all of the information outlined above... and claim the Super Bonuses that are yours to keep no matter what you decide...

And then take the next 90 DAYS to convince yourself.

Within minutes of completing your membership order or purchase of your manual system, you will immediately be emailted downloadable links; giving you INSTANT ACCESS:

... And if, after 90 days, all of this doesn't improve your case or if for any reason you're not thrilled with your membership or purchase of the Manual System, just e-mail us for a complete refund of all monies you've paid.

(To be fair, all I ask is that you send me proof that you tried to use at least some of the strategies you learned, as well as proof of your results -- or lack thereof -- and I'll refund all your money.)

I'm serious. I'm not interested in taking your money unless you see results!

Even at the $147.77 investment for The Fathers Rights Protection System , you're still backed by this can't-lose guarantee! The same is true for membership!

The worst thing that can happen is, you spend the next 90 days being privy to the success strategies for successful fathers...

The best thing that can happen is, that you can make all this happen in YOUR CASE!
And no matter what you decIde, the bonuses are yours to keep. And since they're web base, there's nothing to send back!

Stop Being the Guinea Pig for Others And Trust Yourself!

Why try what "others" tell you when, after learning a few basic techiniques, you can trust your own gut feelings. After all, who care the most about your case, you or others? Face reality, no one cares more about your case than you do; not your attorney, not your friends, not even you parents. You must take matters in your own hands and "direct" your case!Why bang your head against the wall gambling with your rights -- that could've been yours?

Other fathers have done the testing and made the mistakes FOR you. Remember, these are fathers that were just like you when they first started out. Yet they've succeeded because they had the guts to try.

Doesn't it make sense to learn from their mistakes and find out WHY they're thriving? This is your chance to be privy to their successes and failures; to the things that worked and to the things that didn't.

Don't miss this opportunity to get access to The Fathers Rights Protection System or to Membership in the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights....

Don't forget -- you investment will include THREE powerful Super Bonuses:

1.) A Fathers Rights Parenting Plan geared specifically for Fathers; and,

2.) A Copy Of A Successful Civil Lawsuit Against Your "X" And All Who Have Helped Her; and,

3.) The "Insider Nationwide Fathers Rights Resources"

... But your Membership or purchase of The Fathers Rights Protection System , plus the THREE Super Bonuses, are only available to when you become a member or purchase the Manual System today! So don't hesitate...

Click hereThe Fathers Rights Protection System to implement these secrets in your case, claim an unfair advantage, and trample your "X".

Remember, it's impossible for you to lose; you must be thrilled! Otherwise, just e-mail us any time within 90 days for a complete 100% refund of all monies you've paid. Click here now and I'll see you inside...

Sincerely, Dennis M. Gac, President
The National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights

P.S. If you don't seize this opportunity, how will you discover what's holding you back? How will you learn from the victories (and costly mistakes) of flesh and blood successful fathers... the ones who've already reached your dream?

If you truly want the strategies to blow the lid off your case, laugh at trial and error, and join their elite circle, Click here now.

NBFR
National Brotherhood Of Fathers Rights8010 212th Street S.W.Edmonds, Washington 98026(206) 650-0250

Thanks so much for your interest in the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights. You can sign up for a free introductory court at www.fathersrightsinfo.com

Also, I know that you may have signed up for our free email newsletter which is the first step to improving your case. The newletter contains numerous strategies that you can use to improve your case....right now!

Now, if you really want to get your case launched in the right direction, regardless of what success or failure you've had in the past, you need to take an assessment of where you're at; then map out a strategy for getting where you want to go.

We can help with that process through our Free Case Analysis.
Understand, there is absolutely no obligation..............

Please do the following:

1. Send a detailed email to dennis@fathershelphotline.com outlining your goals and background of the case. Then, I will personally map out a strategy for you, showing you how to get where you want to go.

2. If you'd like, send me your phone number so that I can call you to discuss your case one on one, or, in the alternative, call me at (206) 650-0250.

I KNOW THAT I CAN HELP, EVEN WHERE OTHERS MAY HAVE FAILED YOU. In fact, the strategies that I'll present may give you the edge that your case desperately needs.

Sincerely,

Dennis M. Gac, President
NBFR
(206) 650-0250

http://www.fathershelphotline.com/dennis@fathershelphotline.com
National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights
Dennis M. Gac, President
8010 212th Street SW
Edmonds, WA 98026

REDUCING CONFLICT OVER CHILD SUPPORT

Ohio State University Fact Sheet
Family Life Month Packet 1999
Family and Consumer Sciences
Campbell Hall 1787 Neil Avenue Columbus, Ohio 43210
Fact Sheet

Reducing Conflict Over Child Support

Diane Johnson, Extension Agent, Family and Consumer Sciences, Darke County

Common Fantasies
"She should be able to manage to take care of the kids on $200.00 per month." "There's a new van in his driveway. I guess that's why he can't pay child support." "They have a new boat. Now I know where the child support goes that I pay." "She had on a new outfit. I'll bet she spent the child support on it."

The truth is that these fantasies are often easier to accept than the fact that both parents are in a precarious financial position after divorce. There is no automatic tracking system that follows the child support money as it goes toward food, clothes, shelter, education, and general maintenance and passes through the family account.

Realities of the Financial Divorce

The family is not only the basic unit for socialization and education of children, it is also the basic economic unit of our society. A divorce signals not only a change in how children are raised, but it also changes the economic resources available to these children.

Possibly the most explosive issue in the divorce process and in the post divorce period is money. If financial disagreements were a major concern during the marriage, money is likely to also be an issue after the divorce. There is some research to indicate that finances are likely to be a source of conflict for half of divorced co-parents.

Following a divorce, a woman's standard of living drops an average of 30 percent in five years, while a man's rises 8 percent. Most of this disparity is due to the discrepancy between male and female pay scales.

Most divorced parents can expect a lifestyle change. Stretching income to cover two households results in less money for each of the newly created households. This results in a lower level of living for everyone.
Reduce the Hostility over Money

Live up to your end of the bargain. Regardless of the formula you used to decide on the amount of support payments and timing of such payments, make every effort to make payments on time. Not only are these payments essential to the welfare of your child, payments send the message to your children that you are committed to them and care about their well being.

Understand that the residential parent has some base costs for housing, electricity, etc., that must be paid even if the child spends time with the non-residential parent.

If you are on the receiving end of the payments, it is helpful to provide a simple accounting of how the support money is spent on a quarterly basis. This is not to say that you need to submit a detailed down to the last penny accounting of the support payment, but you can do a lot to demonstrate to the paying parent that the money is being used for the child or children rather than for yourself.

Don't involve the children in arguments over financial matters. Children should not have to worry about whether bills will be paid nor should they have to act as collection agents for the child support payments.

If the support check does not arrive, don't use this as an excuse to deny visitation. Your anger and resentment are understandable, but using your child as a tool to punish the other parent is also unacceptable. Denying visitation punishes the child more than the other parent, and can bring about further court action.

Share money limitations with your children but not your anxiety and worry. Kids need to understand why they can't eat out as often, but they don't need to share your stress.

Reassure your kids that they will be taken care of after the divorce. They will wonder if they will have a place to live and food to eat. They need your reassurance even though you may think it is obvious that they will have what they need. Separate parenting issues from financial issues when you plan a co-parenting discussion.

Don't try to assuage guilt by spending money, buying presents, and otherwise indulging your child to make up for the divorce or the time you are away from each other. Also, don't give your child things that you know the other parent can't afford. Playing the part of a "Disneyland Dad" or a "Merry Mom" not only encourages a child to build unrealistic expectations, but also can lead to manipulative behavior. Playing one parent off against the other is not a positive situation for the parents or the child. If there is something special that your child would like to have, plan with your co-parent about how or whether that particular purchase can be made. Sometimes proportional sharing of the costs is a fair way to provide for special needs or wants.

The paying parent may want to pay for some expenses directly rather than pass the money through the other parent. This sometimes helps remove some of the distrust about money and helps overcome the feeling that the money is being used by the other parent for his or her personal benefit. Make sure that the other parent is agreeable to this and that he or she understands and agrees with any such change in normal child support procedures in writing.

While money issues can be a major problem in the post-divorce stage, it is important to attempt to remove as much of the conflict and mystery as possible and deal realistically with the situation. The welfare of the child should be the primary focus of monetary discussion, not disputes from the marriage or disputes on parenting issues. Remember, it is the responsibility of both parents to provide for their children.

References
Blau, M. (1994). Families apart: Ten keys to successful co-parenting. New York: G. P. Putnam & Sons.
Marston, S. (1994). The divorced parent: Success strategies for raising your children after separation. New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc.
Ricci, I. (1980). Mom's house, dad's house: Making shared custody work. New York: Macmillan.

A Problem You Now Face...And The Solution

Lesson 7
A Problem You Now Face...And The Solution
This final lesson is important to you if, as you went through this course, you said one or more times to yourself, “Maybe!” Maybe there’s something here. Maybe there’s a way for me to settle my case with the least amount of grief. Maybe there’s a way to raise my odds of success and avoid at least some of the brutality that permeates the family law process. Maybe there’s a way to spend our time more effectively. “Maybe, maybe, maybe.” If you said maybe, then you have to be concerned with this problem:Bridging the gap between new ideas, new information, new intentions and implementation. Huge gap.
We’re not going to bridge the gap from new ideas, new information, new intentions, to implementation, to something actually happening. You need tools for this, so I’m going to show you a few tools. But first let me ask you...
If you’re involved in a “contested case” of any kind: How would you like to stop being a “victim”?.....Finally get accurately measurable, quick results from each and every action taken? At will, take the case by the “horns” and start directing traffic for a change? At will, raise your odds of settling by 75% and get more of what you want in your case? Define and DOMINATE the main issues of your choosing? (It doesn’t matter how difficult your “X” seems at the moment what I’m about to reveal to you can “re-invent” your entire attitude about your situation!)If you’re seeking custody and primary care of your kids: How would you like to quit feeling like it’s a foregone conclusion that the “X” gets the kids once and for all? Possess new, powerful ways to magnetically force settlement. Put an end to being a “2nd Class Citizen?” Have the “X” actually be on defense for a change?If you’re fighting unfair child support or worrying about protecting your assets: How would you like to set yourself up where the IRS pays a portion of your child support and you’ve got your assets protected so that you can really build for the future…....AND…..control your income so that you “don’t” have to reveal “all” of it….legally?All those benefits, and many more, are readily available -- with my strategies, notably my “Complete Father’s Rights Protection System”.
I Know You May Cruise The Internet Looking For Answers, Call Lawyer’s On The Phone, And Even Buy Books And CDs Looking For Answers. Still, I Outright Guarantee You've Never Gotten Your Hands On Anything Quite As Powerful And Practical As My Materials
I have assembled a product like no other -- yes, it’s in CD format, but you MUST NOT prejudge it because of that. This is actually a complete "TOOL KIT".....real tools you take and use in your case. It's called THE COMPLETE FATHER’S RIGHTS PROTECTION SYSTEM (2006 Edition) and you might think of it as a complete, transformational Father’s Rights department in a box. Actually, this is such a unique product it is hard to describe, but I'm going to take my very best shot.
There are 6 main, "components" in the COMPLETE FATHER’S RIGHTS PROTECTION SYSTEM -- let me walk you through each of them:
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #1:"No Brainer," Fast Implementation
First, in general, I've made implementation an 80% "no-brainer," because I have done 80% of the work for you. In addition to teaching on CD in the System, I have taken nearly 50 case studies and created complete pleading work for each one; including Magnetic Power Pleadings --- including: Motions, Petitions, Tort Claims, Parenting Plans and Declarations, and so on. And these documents are all marked "Copyright Free," which gives you permission to take them and use them, virtually as-is! (When an attorney is paid to develop just ONE collection of documents like these, for one client, they often charge $3,500.00 to as much as $10,000.00, so there’s tens of $1,000’s worth of legal drafting provided in this System!)
Now, here's the best part: Information and ideas are fine, but let's bridge the gap to implementation. It turns out that 90% of all Father’s and their cases fit one (or more) of these categories so perfectly and ...YOUR case will match up with (at least) one of these categories so perfectly, you will be able to "steal" and use those "power pleadings" and strategies outright, just as if they were created for you ... only very minor adaptation necessary! Please pay attention to this point! I’ve given many seminars and, after each speech, I am surrounded by Father’s, each asking if the System applies to his case and will it work in his State, each believing their cases to be so "different" it must not be included. So, to repeat: 90% of all cases and situations are covered by this System! For most, at least one category is such a perfect match, there's instant application with little or no creative adaptation.
The System covers divorce, paternity, child support modifications, custody modifications, appeals, contempt of court, license suspensions, wage garnishments, grandparents rights, mediation, asset protection, on and on. And just about everybody who gets this System finds one category to be a very close match ... they learn and "borrow" from ALL the materials, AND they are able to instantly and easily apply the tools from the one category best matched to their case.
Included in these Copyright-Free Documents, in one of the examples, is the now-famous “Paper Blizzard Strategy.” Methods that I show at most seminars, that every audience falls in love with! You've just got to see this "Father’s Rights Masterpiece!"
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #2:Learn From 8 Father’s Rights Manuals – Over 1,000 Pages
In addition to everything I created for you, I have also included 8 manuals that have been the backbone of the Father’s Rights Movement for the last 20 years. The Father’s that have used them have reported extraordinary results.
· A Father’s Guide To Winning Custody of Your Kids and Waging Your Own Personal Child Support Revolt taking you from the first time a problem arises through final paperwork; and
· A Father’s Guide To Winning Custody of Your Kids and Waging Your Own Personal Child Support Revolt Part II reveals in plain language how to stop oppression and live a free life; and,
· Anatomy Of A Divorce / A Guide For Father’s tells you what no other source will about the divorce process; and,
· Anatomy Of An Action For Parentage A Guide For Unwed Father’s is specifically geared for unwed Father’s; and,
· A Father’s Defense Guide Against False Allegations Of Sexual Abuse shows you how to strike back against false allegations of sexual abuse/domestic violence; and,
· Mediation: How Father’s Can Settle Custody And Child Support Disputes Without Going To Court teaches how to settle effectively rather than go into the non-user-friendly, anti-father court system; and,
· Winning Strategies For Father’s In Custody & Child Support Disputes is written for Father’s that are serious about rolling up their sleeves and doing their own pleading work; and
· Winning Strategies For Father’s In Custody/Child Support Disputes Part Il reveals jealously guarded secrets which show Father’s how to turn their cases into Rights-Winning Machines.
But virtually EVERY possible scenario is included in my System. My COMPLETE FATHER’S RIGHTS PROTECTION SYSTEM is a comprehensive, integrated package of help with pleadings, techniques, strategies asset protection formulas, and every problem and solution presented in easily understandable format.
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #3:The "Audio Companion" CD
Audio CD #1 “The Audio Companion CD” "walks" you through every scenario, every 'power pleading', every tool, every example in the System. Sit down for a couple of hours at your desk or kitchen table, with the System, listen to this CD, and you’ll understand everything in the System, where it is, why it's there, how it is to be used. This way, you quickly set up your own "Fathers’ Rights Smorgasbord," so you can go back through the line, pick out the strategy and "tools" most relevant to your case right now, get those up and running, working for you, and then go back through the line and pick another system, etc.
Oh, and don't worry about the "how to eat an elephant problem" here -- the answer IS "one bite at a time." This System is NOT something you're going to zip through once, put on a shelf and never go back to. Not at all! It IS a true "tool kit" you'll keep going back to, time after time, month after month. And each time you choose and put to work a System, a strategy, or tool, you will AGAIN simplify your life, strengthen your position with your kids, and gain control of your case!
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #4:A "Crash Course" In Father’s Rights
Audio CD #2 gives you a fast, crash course in these unusual, powerful strategies. This unique CD is in question and answer format and condenses my answers for you.....it's a total "brain drain".....and I promise you: you're going to EAGERLY refer to this CD over and over again, making new discoveries every time! If you have friends that may be going through the same thing you are, get them to refer to this CD, and they'll instantly have their minds opened to these new approaches.
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #5:7 Major Bonuses ...
The system contains 7 Major Father’s Rights Bonuses. "Here, I focus on several of the most powerful, easy to master, easy to implement Systems which affect your rights and offer some “extra” useful tools as well. You’ll see great results from: Magnetic Power Pleadings, Nationwide Father’s Rights Resources, Magnetic Power Pleadings, Glossary, State and Federal Tort Claims, Report on Parental Alienation Syndrome and a Compendium of Legal Forms Shrewdly Slanted in Your Favor,
FATHER’S RIGHTS COMPONENT #6:Hands-On, Personal Assistance:A $1,000.00+ Consultation Value!
You get my personal feedback, by phone, email or FAX. And staff does NOT do this; you get advice from me on what you've done well, what you haven't, and how to improve it. (By the way, a warning: I'm rather blunt. I may hurt your feelings. But I WILL improve your case!)
As a Father’s Rights consultant, I frequently provide this 2nd Opinion Critique service to many Father’s, and charge $200.00 per item, so this IS a very real value. However, it can certainly be worth a whole lot more to you. (There's a Father in Seattle, Washington for example, who made three "little" changes in his case pleading that he was about to file -- and immediately got some things in court the next day that he wasn’t even going to ask for before I talked to him. Or another Father in Florida that made ... one "little" change in the way he “channeled” his income and saved tons on child support because “he’ controlled his income.
You get me to respond to your most vexing problems. I regularly charge big dough for my “personal” consultation, but this is included for you at no added charge!
By Now, I'll Bet You Are "Worrying"About The Price ...
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Your SECOND Guarantee: If you keep the System after the two months, I'll ride along with you for another TEN months and, if, after a full year from your purchase date, you will show me proof that you used at least one strategy, System, or tool from the Complete Father’s Rights Protection System, and you will look me in the eye on paper and tell me you did not improve your case in some manner, that you would not have otherwise, send me a note describing your use and I’ll STILL refund every penny you've paid. Even if you've used my personal Critique and Consultation Service, I will STILL refund every penny you've paid -- even after one full year. I want you to improve your case that you know would never have gotten there without my System, or I want to buy it back.
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The Famous "Impossible Case" Story

Lesson 6
The Famous "Impossible Case" Story
This story is a real important story. Here’s everything it does.First of all, it takes everything we talked about and a few things we didn’t, and stitches them together in chronologically applicable order, so you see how they work. Secondly, it does it in a real-life situation. This is a true-life example. Third, it does it with an extremely disagreeable “X” most of you would never expect to settle, thereby demonstrating if this guy can do it, you can do it too. Fourth, it gives you a complete, as I promised you at the beginning of our time together, a Father’s Rights strategy, a system, step-by-step, that you can walk out of here and use exactly as it is described to you in this story, and see results in your case; perhaps in a short period of time.
One day, I get a phone call from a guy right here in my own home town of Seattle, Washington. He’s calls me, as so many Father’s do with the “impossible case.” He’s so depressed and at his wits end about his situation --- not being able to see his kids, false allegations by the “X” against him regarding him abusing his kids, and a nasty child support order which garnishes his wages, leaving him with next to nothing to live on. This guy was desperate for help!
A Deadly Mistake
The point is that this guy is desperate and willing to try anything; while most Father’s are not. Don’t make this flagrant mistake.
So, I consoled him for a minute and then hit him with what he needed to do….follow the system. I gave him a brief history how to go about it and he began the process.
Of course he was skeptical, but, so distraught that he had nothing to lose.
He began by sending the first letter to his “X” making it a really impassioned message. Of course, no response. A couple of weeks later he sent a follow up letter, still no response. All the while, he was defending himself in court on multiple hearings and going through a series of parenting and anger management evaluations. And, he fought vigorously by the way!
Because he was feeling a little better about things, in fact, empowered for the first time in a couple of months, he began filing his own motions in court without an attorney and appealed every order of the court --- bumping things upstairs out of the family court and into the court of appeals.
He became very organized and offered sworn affidavits from family and friends contradicting his “X”’s statements and submitted these to the evaluators. He also filed them into the record at the courthouse.
Again, he sent a further letter offering to mediate with her and to come to some sort of settlement that made sense for everyone concerned; particularly the kids. Again, no response.
So, he got the bright idea [from the system of course] to file a tort claim lawsuit against the “X”, her attorney and several people that testified against him. He told me “you should have seen their faces when they got served.” In fact, he immediately got a phone call from the “X”’s attorney …. Yelling at him and telling him he didn’t know what he was doing and that he couldn’t sue. My guy proceeded to tell Mr. Attorney that he obviously didn’t understand cause he already did it! It was becoming fun now!
Yet, my client didn’t lose sight of the system which is to create pressure to gain relief!
Again, he sent a letter to the “X” offering to talk about settlement and something that made sense. By this time, of course, she had heard from all her family and friends that were part of the lawsuit; something she created by being such a b___ !
All of a sudden, after 6 months, she sent him an email chewing him out and asking him who he thought he was; but, near the end of the email she said she might be willing to concede on some issues; but, that she’d have to have custody and still needed money.
WOW! This guy called me immediately and was “giddy” with joy. He said that this was the first time progress of any sort was seen. I was happy for him, of course, but warned him not to let his guard down and “keep working the system.”
Now, think about this for a second, because two important things just happened. Not only did it look like the “X” was beginning to soften, my guy was really enthused now!
There’s more to his story, but, I think you get the point. And, there are many, many more techniques this guy hadn’t even used yet.
If he stops there, it’s a giant epic waste. Think of what has to happen now for it this situation to turn into an actual settlement. He has to meet with her, propose his ideas, listen to hers and come to an agreement. Fat change huh? No, wrong again. He’s closer than he thinks.
Now, I’m going to tell you the rest of the story, mostly for fun. It makes one important point. But let’s do 30 seconds of analysis. This Father did everything we talked about brilliantly. Let’s analyze his case settlement campaign.
Anatomy Of A Killer Settlement Campaign
This Father our “settlement genius,” feels much better about the case and himself while exerting “real” pressure on the other side to settle.
The first seed he plants in the mind of the “X” and her attorney is that “this guys not giving up and becoming a real pain the a__!” This guys really feeling his oats now!
He then throws his case in overdrive by suing everyone involved with defaming his character and denying him his rights with his children.
He essentially creates an offer they can’t refuse. You know, like in the Godfather. He creates an offer that transcends timing. He did everything we talked about brilliantly. And if this guy can do it you can do it.
The Rest Of The Story
Now, for fun, this Father sets up mediation and his wife agrees, virtually no resemblance between the old uncooperative “X” and the “new X.”
At mediation she still digs in her heels a bit but the important point is that she is at the negotiation table; where prior to Al’s implementation of our system Al wasn’t even in the ballpark.
Now, mediation continues for several sessions and our Father and the “X” actually agree on several points except a new parenting plan for the kids, the amount of money she’ll get paid every month for child support and for the maintenance that she was still demanding.
Our guy smelled blood at this point even though the “X” wasn’t agreeing to everything. He sensed that the “X” really didn’t want to jump back into the arena --- he smelled fear for the first time.
8 sessions later and a little concession on his part and the parties struck a settlement.
Now, it’s easy to sit here and read this nice neat little story summarizing almost a year of this guys life and think that that’s all well and good, but, “I’m sitting here in the trenches slugging it out.” Believe me, it can happen to you too!
But, it won’t all be a bed of roses. There are problems with every case, even if we had three times as many lessons we couldn’t solve every conceivable problem in every single case. And we don’t even try to solve everything in this short course.
I want to talk about the problems and how to solve them in our final lesson. www.fathershelphotline.com